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How did a 14-year-old Palestinian girl who has never set foot in the open-air prison of Gaza find herself being dumped there by Israeli officials – alone, at night and without her parents being informed?
The terrifying ordeal – a child realising she had not been taken home but discarded in a place where she knew no one – is hard to contemplate for any parent.
And yet for Israel’s gargantuan bureaucratic structure that has ruled over Palestinians for five decades, this was just another routine error. One mishap among many that day.
This is a bureaucracy… that controls the smallest details of Palestinians’ lives. With the flick of a pen, everything can be turned upside down…
A single, abstract noun – “occupation” – obscures a multitude of crimes.
What crushes Palestinian spirits is not just the calculated malevolence of Israel’s occupation authorities, as they kill and imprison Palestinians, seal them into ghettoes, steal lands and demolish homes. It is also the system’s casual indifference to their fate.
This is a bureaucracy – of respectable men and women – that controls the smallest details of Palestinians’ lives. With the flick of a pen, everything can be turned upside down. Palestinians are viewed as numbers and bodies rather than human beings.
The story of Ghada – as she has been identified – illustrates many features of this system of control.
She was arrested last month as an “illegal alien” in her own homeland for visiting her aunt. The two live a short distance apart, but while Israel considers Ghada a resident of the West Bank, her aunt is classified as a resident of Jerusalem. They might as well be on different planets.
Ghada, we should note, suffers from epilepsy. After two days in detention, and over opposition from Israeli police, a judge ordered her released on bail. All this happened without her parents present.
Israel controls the Palestinian population register too, and had recorded Ghada wrongly as a Gaza resident, even though she was born and raised far away in the West Bank. She is separated from Gaza by Israel, which she cannot enter.
Presumably, no Israeli official wanted to harm Ghada. It was just that none cared enough to notice that she was a frightened child – afraid of being alone, of the dark, of fences and watch-towers. And a child who needs regular medical care.
Was this not precisely what Hannah Arendt… meant when she identified the “banality of evil” while watching the trial of the holocaust’s architect, Adolph Eichmann, in Jerusalem in 1962?
Instead she was viewed simply as a package, to be delivered to whatever location was on the docket. Despite her anguished protests, she was forced through the electronic fence into the cage of Gaza.
She was finally released by Israel and returned to her parents on 8 February, two weeks after her ordeal began.
Was this not precisely what Hannah Arendt, the Jewish philosopher of totalitarianism, meant when she identified the “banality of evil” while watching the trial of the holocaust’s architect, Adolph Eichmann, in Jerusalem in 1962?
Arendt wrote that totalitarian systems were designed to turn men into “functionaries and mere cogs in the administrative machinery”, to “dehumanise them”.
Even the worst bureaucracies contain few monsters. Its officials have simply forgotten what it means to be human, losing the capacity for compassion and independent thought.
After five decades of ruling over Palestinians, with no limits or accountability, many Israelis have become cogs.
Most of the Palestinian victims of this “system” remain hidden from view – like the small children of Abu Nawar who awoke this week to find their village school had been levelled because Israel wants their land for the neighbouring illegal settlement of Maale Adumim.
But a Ghada occasionally throws a troubling light on the depths to which Israel has sunk.
Another example is Ahed Tamimi, who spent her 17th birthday in prison last week, charged with slapping a heavily armed soldier during an invasion of her home. Moments earlier his unit had shot her 15-year-old cousin in the face, nearly killing him. She now risks a 10-year jail sentence for her justified anger.
Michael Oren, Israel’s former ambassador to Washington and now a government minister, was so unwilling to believe Ahed could be blonde-haired and blue-eyed – like him – that he ordered a secret investigation to try to prove her family were actors.
Oren Hazan, a parliament member from the ruling Likud party, told the BBC… that Ahed was not a child, but a “terrorist”. Had he been slapped, he said, “She would finish in the hospital for sure… I would kick, kick her face.”
Most Israelis cannot believe that a Palestinian child might fight for her home, and for her family’s right to live freely. Palestinians are expected to be passive recipients of Israel’s “civilising”, bureaucratic violence.
Soldiers helping settlers to steal her community’s farmland have scrawled death threats against her on the walls in her village, Nabi Saleh.
Oren Hazan, a parliament member from the ruling Likud party, told the BBC last week that Ahed was not a child, but a “terrorist”. Had he been slapped, he said, “She would finish in the hospital for sure… I would kick, kick her face.”
This dehumanising logic is directed at any non-Jew with a foothold in the enlarged fortress state Israel is creating.
But belatedly a few Israelis are drawing a line. A backlash has begun as Israel this week starts expelling 40,000 asylum seekers who fled wars in Sudan and Eritrea. In violation of international treaties, Israel wants these refugees returned to Africa, where they risk persecution or death.
Unlike Palestinians, these refugees tug at some liberal Israelis’ heartstrings, reminding them of European Jews who once needed shelter from genocide.
Nonetheless, Israel has incentivised its citizens to become bounty-hunters, offering them $9,000 bonuses for hunting down Africans. Progressive rabbis and social activists have called for Israelis to hide the refugees in attics and cellars, just as Europeans once protected Jews from their persecutors.
It is a battle for Israel’s soul. Can Israelis begin to see non-Jews – whether Palestinians like Ghada ot Africans – as fellow human beings, as equally deserving of compassion? Or will Israelis sink further into the darkness of a banal evil that threatens to engulf them?
A version of this article first appeared in The National, Abu Dhabi. The version here is published by permission of Jonathan Cook.
By Dr. Patrick Slattery — Hey kids, the friendly Jews at Google have a new game for you: where’s whitey? It’s kind of like Where’s Waldo, only you have to find white people. It’s not as easy as you think.
Here’s how you play. Go to Google images, and then type something in the search bar. Go ahead. Try it. I started with “American inventors.” Can you find the white person?
Sure you can. It’s Ben Franklin, inventor of the $100 bill. Actually, you may not have noticed, but Alexander Graham Bell is there too. But just to make things extra fun, Google found a picture of him that makes him look like a negro. Very tricky! Now, you may be asking yourself, “what about Thomas Edison, what about the Wright brothers? Didn’t they invent stuff?” Well, yeah, kinda, but there is only so much space on a computer monitor. For instance, that fat lady with the blue background who is portrayed twice is Madame C.J. Walker, the inventor of Madame C.J. Walker’s Wonderful Hair Grower, which cured baldness. So the next time you are flying an airplane at night and you turn on the light and don’t see any bald people, you will know who to thank.
If it’s WHITE inventors you want, you will need to be more specific in your search query, goy.
Now those are some white inventors we can all agree on! But what about scientists? Well, go ahead and try it. Type in “American scientists.”
I think it was really creative of the fun Jews at Google to use stock photos of models pretending to be scientists to help hide whitey. But you did find the white scientist, right? He’s right there in the middle: Donald Trump, who discovered how to get elected president over the universal opposition of the Jewish power elite. Plus he has a hot wife. That’s gotta be science!
See how many more whites you can find by adding the word “white” to American scientists.
Now you’re starting to get the hang of it. Let’s try American mathematicians.
And white American mathematicians.
But wait, there’s more! You can play this game with Europeans, too!
Did you notice that Google recommended “HistoricAL Europeans” as an alternative to “Historic Europeans? Let’s try it and see what happens.
Yes, yes, much higher quality negroes. Okay. let’s try something new. Surely there is a way to get more white people in the results. Let’s try “white women.” Everybody likes white women, right?
Okay, now we are getting somewhere. There were plenty of pretty white women in those results. Also Amy Schumer. And some black men. And black women. None were with white men, though. Well let’t try a query that is a little more inclusive. How about “white women with their boyfriends?”
Hmmm. Was there a white man with a white woman? Most of the white women were with black guys (one who was attacking the white woman) plus the tattooed girl with the Hispanic guy and the tall girl with the oriental guy. And, sure there were white men, but they were with black girls, except for the guy kissing the girl in the baseball hat, who was Chinese (I checked). The only chance was that the headless, shirtless guy in the black and white photo groping the girl was white. Or maybe the guy lying on top of the girl with no pants. But I guess we’ll never know.
Does this mean that Google doesn’t want white men and white women to get together? Let’s see what happens when we try “white couples?”
Finally, Google actually shows you a few white couples when you search for “white couples.” I guess that’s how Google got to be the biggest most powerfulest company in the whole wide world. They are a search engine, and if you search often enough sometimes with will give you a couple results that actually match what you are searching for. It’s funny that AltaVista and Lycos never thought of doing that! Still, it’s mostly a bunch of pictures black men pawing over white women. And what’s with those butt-ugly lesbians!?
Okay, one more chance Google. Show me some “white people.”
Okay, while there are some stray negroes, including the lady in the “Screw White People” meme, these DO seem to be mostly white people. But take a closer look. These images of whites carry captions saying that whites all look the same, that they cannot be exotic, that they are born racist, that they should be beat up, and that unless they are engaged in self-criticism they are engaged in violence.
But this is just a Google game, right? No real harm done.
Unfortunately, Google and the rest of the Jewish power elite is trying to meme us out of existence, and they are having some success. Take a look at this real life composite picture of the Rockefeller Foundation board of directors:
And at least two of the three hu-whites are Jews. This is not a game, and this is not an accident. Search engines are supposed to help you find what you are looking for, but Google, now that it has reached monopoly proportions, has taken it to help you find what they want you to look at. This is obviously purposeful.
On the David Duke show last week, Dr. Duke, myself, and our guests talked at great length about these Google results. One of my favorites, which I talked about on the show, was the results for “American Presidents.” I wanted to use that in this article, because it was pretty funny. Of course, it was mostly Barack Obama, but also there were pictures of Morgan Freeman and Danny Glover, who I guess played presidents in (((Hollywood))) movies. There was some guy who looked like Corey Booker, whom they want to meme into being the next president. But also there was a shot of Crazy Maxine Waters with Charile Rangle and John Lewis, looking like old jokes who long ago stopped being funny.
But somebody must have told Google that the goyim know, because now when you search for American presidents you just get composite images of all 45 presidents, and no images of individual presidents. In other words, they changed it over night.
This really is a fun game, but it is part of a sick war on white people that the Jewish owners of Google and the rest of the Jewish power elite are waging. But we are the sleeping giant, and all we need to do is wake up and re-assert control over our own societies and our own destiny.
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Baton Rouge, LA — (RT) A Louisiana sheriff and two jail staff have been hit with a federal lawsuit after a teen inmate was moved away from the juvenile unit and subsequently raped by an adult cellmate who infected him with HIV.
The lawsuit, filed Monday, accuses East Baton Rouge Parish Sheriff Sid Gautreaux, prison warden Dennis Grimes, and a corrections officer by the name of Deputy Daniels of violating the teen’s constitutional rights.
The suit states that the teen met the criteria of being a “high risk sexual victim” under the federal Prison Rape Elimination Act and should have remained segregated from the jail’s general population. He was 5’10” and 125 pounds at the time of the incident and “mildly physical handicapped due to Fetal Alcohol Syndrome suffered as a child.”
Instead, the suit says the 17-year-old was transferred away from the jail’s juvenile wing and into the cell of a man who is awaiting trial on charges that he raped a woman in 2015. He is also charged with battery and burglary, local CBS affiliate WAFB reported.
On February 16, 2017, the teen was reportedly awakened by the rape and was threatened to not speak about the incident. He managed to alert jail staff by giving a deputy a note. As a result, he was separated from the cellmate and taken to the facility’s infirmary.
The young inmate suffered a fractured bone during the incident and was treated at a local hospital. He was given anti-HIV medication, and the hospital told him to follow up in six months to test if he was infected. According to the suit, the sheriff’s office did not follow up on the teen’s six-month check-up. He was ultimately diagnosed as being HIV-positive in December.
The suit states that the prison warden and corrections officer should have never placed a “high risk sexual victim” in a cell with an inmate who had been considered a high-risk sexual predator by the warden’s staff. It also says the warden should have known about the inmate’s HIV status and isolated him from the rest of the prison’s population.
The suit is seeking compensatory damages against each of the three defendants, along with attorney’s fees and punitive damages against the victim’s cellmate and the corrections officer.
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Consciousness. What is it? Where does it comes from? And what type of connection does it have to physical-material reality? These questions, and more, are what we explored in our most recent Podcast, hosted by CE founder Joe Martino, when we sat down with neuroscientist Dr. Mario Beauregard
We dived into non-material science, the importance and validity behind it, and how we’re currently living in a second scientific revolution.
Many studies in the fields of quantum physics as well as neuroscience have shown what’s now, scientifically speaking, undeniable – that consciousness has a direct effect on our physical material world. Whether it be meditators trying to influence quantum systems at a distance, examples of telepathy, remote viewing, or the fact that various individuals within several different countries governments (under the watch of their Department of Defence) have had ‘special’ abilities.
You can read more about that and see some actual examples in the article linked below, as well as similar topics that are discussed in the podcast.
On a side note, did you know that as far back as 1999, statistics professor Jessica Utts at UC Irvine, published a paper showing that parapsychological experiments have produced much stronger results than those showing a daily dose of aspirin helping to prevent heart attacks. Utts also showed that these results are much stronger than the research behind various drugs like antiplatelets, for example.
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Hundreds of scientists are gathering to emphasize this (that matter is not the only reality), and are not really getting the attention they deserve. All of our academia and real-world applications come from material science. This is great, but it’s time to take the next leap. How can we continue to ignore facts and results simply because they defy the belief systems of so many people?
A group of internationally recognized scientists have come together to stress the fact that matter (protons, electrons, photons, anything that has a mass) is not the only reality. We wish to understand the nature of our reality, but how can we do so if we are continually examining only physical systems? What about the role of non-physical systems such as consciousness, or their interaction with physical systems (matter)?
Here is a list of points were co-authored by: Dr. Gary Schwartz, professor of psychology, medicine, neurology, psychiatry, and surgery at the University of Arizona, Mario Beauregard, PhD, from the University of Arizona, and Lisa Miller, PhD, from Columbia University. It was presented at an international summit on post-materialist science, spirituality, and society.
The Summary Report of the International Summit on Post-Materialist Science, Spirituality and Society can be downloaded here: International Summit on Post-Materialist Science: Summary Report (PDF).
“Get over it, and accept the inarguable conclusion. The universe is immaterial-mental and spiritual.” (“The Mental Universe” ; Nature 436:29,2005)
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“Expanding Reality is about the emerging postmaterialist paradigm and the next great scientific revolution. Why is it important? Because this paradigm has far-reaching implications. For instance, it re-enchants the world and profoundly alters the vision we have of ourselves, giving us back our dignity and power as human beings. The postmaterialist paradigm also fosters positive values such as compassion, respect, care, love, and peace, because it makes us realize that the boundaries between self and others are permeable. In doing so, this paradigm promotes an awareness of the deep interconnection between ourselves and Nature at large. In that sense, the model of reality associated with the postmaterialist paradigm may help humanity to create a sustainable civilization and to blossom.” – Mario Beauregard, PhD, from the University of Arizona
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We learned in recent days that the FBI and the National Security Agency “inadvertently” deleted electronic messages relating to reported felonies, but one noxious reality persists: No one in the FBI or NSA is likely to be held to account for these “mistakes.”
It is a 70 year-old tradition. Today’s lack of accountability is enabled by (1) corruption at the top of intelligence agencies; (2) the convenient secrecy behind which their leaders hide; (3) bureaucratic indignities and structural flaws in the system; (4) the indulgence/complicity of most of the “mainstream media;” and (5) the eunuchs leading the Congressional “oversight” committees, who – history shows – can be bullied by threats, including blackmail, a la former longtime FBI Director J. Edgar Hoover.
It is a safe bet, though, that neither the FBI nor NSA have deleted their holdings on key Congressional leaders – including House Democratic minority leader Nancy Pelosi, who used to boast about her very long tenure as head of the House Intelligence Committee, only to complain later that “they [intelligence officials] mislead us all the time.”
In fact, Pelosi was briefed by the NSA and CIA on all manner of crimes, including warrantless surveillance of U.S. citizens, in violation of the Fourth Amendment, and torture.
The lack of intelligence accountability has created a kind of perfect storm, enabling felonies and lesser mischief ordered by those sitting atop the intelligence community. While press reports indicate that the Congressional oversight committees now have “explosive” documentary proof – not yet deleted – of such crimes, it remains to be seen whether the committees will have the courage to do their duty under the law.
Even if they try, the odds are against their being able to make much headway, in the face of stiff resistance from the heads of intelligence agencies and a suborned/frightened “mainstream media.”
Rosemary Woods on Steroids
Those of us with a little gray in our hair will remember the infamous, 18.5-minute gap “mistakenly” caused by Rosemary Woods, President Richard Nixon’s longtime secretary, while transcribing a key Oval Office tape of a discussion between President Richard Nixon and his partner-in-crime-cum-chief of staff H.R. Haldeman right after the Watergate break-in. (The tape itself was then destroyed.)
Younger folks may recall reporting on the videotapes of waterboarding at a CIA “black site” in Thailand in 2002, tapes that were deliberately destroyed in 2005 at the order of Jose Rodriguez, head of the CIA operations directorate at the time.
Woods testified that she had erased part of the tape by mistake. She suffered no consequences for her “mistake,” and died in 2005 at age 87.
And to no one’s surprise, Rodriguez also landed on his feet.
CIA officials initially claimed that the videotapes were destroyed to protect the identity of the interrogators – read torturers. It was later revealed that then-Executive Director of the CIA, Kyle “Dusty” Foggo, wrote in an email that Rodriguez thought “the heat from destroying is nothing compared with what it would be if the tapes ever got into public domain,” adding that they would be “should devastating to us.”
Foggo ended up in prison as a result of an unrelated fraud case. Sadly, no senior intelligence official following the time-(dis)honored Foggo/Rodriguez approach today are likely to end up behind bars, unless this time Congress shows unaccustomed courage.
Ray McGovern works with the publishing arm of the ecumenical Church of the Savior in inner-city Washington. After retiring from a 27-year career as a CIA analyst, he co-founded Veteran Intelligence Professionals for Sanity (VIPS).
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In an age when nearly half of all marriages are expected to fail, it’s important to take relationship advice seriously. But who do you source it from? Magazines rarely dish more than “20 ways to blow his mind in bed,” and romantic comedies only cater to audiences searching for their “Happily Ever After.”
What if we told you that the best marriage advice we’ve ever come across was shared by a divorced man? It sounds counter-intuitive, but we dare you to read on…
The day after finalizing his divorce, author and motivational speaker Gerald Rogers sat down at his computer and began to compile his thoughts. After typing up a heartfelt essay, he uploaded it to Facebook along with a photograph of his wedding day. As The Hearty Soul reports, the beautiful post highlights the many things Gerald learned about keeping a marriage healthy and happy.
Read the full post below:
“Obviously, I’m not a relationship expert. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had…
1) Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.
2) PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.
3) FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.
4) ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.
5) IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.
6) TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.
7) NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.
8) Allow your woman to JUST BE. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and unjudging she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.
9) BE SILLY… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.
10) FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.
11) BE PRESENT. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.
12) BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.
13) DON’T BE AN IDIOT…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.
14) GIVE HER SPACE… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)
15) BE VULNERABLE… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.
16) BE FULLY TRANSPARENT. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.
17) NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.
18) DON’T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.
19) FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.
20) ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure.
In the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come.
Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.
These are lessons I learned the hard way. These are lessons I learned too late.
But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I LOVED being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.
If you are reading this and find wisdom in my pain, share it those those young husbands whose hearts are still full of hope, and with those couples you may know who may have forgotten how to love. One of those men may be like I was, and in these hard earned lessons perhaps something will awaken in him and he will learn to be the man his lady has been waiting for.
The woman that told him ‘I do’, and trusted her life with him, has been waiting for this man to step up.
If you are reading this and your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, take 100% responsibility for YOUR PART in marriage, regardless of where your spouse is at, and commit to applying these lessons while there is time.
MEN- THIS IS YOUR CHARGE: Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from you.
Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.”
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First Comment by RL
A mentor is someone who tells you the truth and you already knew it, but never thought about it. I found my mentors on the radio and the internet. I used to listen to a lot of radio and surf the web. One guy was Roy Masters. I agree with him 80-90%. But he is a Zionist because he’s a Jew. He is a bit ignorant sometimes and likes to fill in the blanks. I think he started the whole talk radio gig.
Another one is Dean Gotcher, a traditional Christian who has done a lot of research on Transformational (cultural) Marxism and the dialectic. They’re both on youtube. There are others like George Gordon (dead now but his radio show is archived). He tough biblical and common law and had a lot of interesting stories. Also, I’m my own mentor since I don’t socialize much. Jesus is the best mentor. I wish He had a radio show. And your site is one a unique one and has a lot of truth. Thank you. More people need to wake up. But most prefer to be asleep.
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